{"id":12444,"date":"2023-07-20T14:50:00","date_gmt":"2023-07-20T12:50:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/indeks.mk\/?p=12444"},"modified":"2023-07-20T14:50:00","modified_gmt":"2023-07-20T12:50:00","slug":"keshillat-me-te-mira-martesore-qe-babai-i-mencur-i-dha-djalit-te-tij-para-se-te-martohej","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/indeks.bilten.mk\/?p=12444","title":{"rendered":"K\u00ebshillat m\u00eb t\u00eb mira martesore, q\u00eb babai i men\u00e7ur i dha djalit t\u00eb tij para se t\u00eb martohej"},"content":{"rendered":"

Kur mendoj se \u00e7far\u00eb lloj k\u00ebshillash jane me te mirat, m\u00eb duhet t\u00eb them k\u00ebshilla martesore.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Pse? Sepse bashk\u00ebshorti juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb ai q\u00eb ju kaloni gjith\u00eb jet\u00ebn tuaj,ai qe duron \u00e7do v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi, d\u00ebshtim dhe luft\u00eb me ju. Ata jan\u00eb pran\u00eb jush gjate suksesit, rritjes dhe bekimeve. Ju mb\u00ebshteteni tek njeri tjetri, dhe e jetoni jeten se bashku.
\nNj\u00eb martes\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb partneritet dhe n\u00ebse e ushqeni at\u00eb, mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb gj\u00ebja m\u00eb e fuqishme n\u00eb jet\u00ebn tuaj. Mund t\u2019ju jap\u00eb rehati, shpres\u00eb dhe stabilitet kur pjesa tjet\u00ebr e bot\u00ebs nuk mundet. transmeton 10gjera.com.<\/p>\n

Fjale te thena nga nje baba ndaj te birit te tij rreth marteses:
\nDjali im, n\u00eb qoft\u00eb se shpenzoni p\u00ebr nj\u00eb grua dhe ajo nuk ju pyet n\u00ebse jeni duke kursyer apo investuar dhe vazhdon t\u00eb shijoj\u00eb v\u00ebmendjen, mos u marto me t\u00eb.
\nDjali im, nj\u00eb grua mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb grua e mir\u00eb p\u00ebr burrin, nje tjeter mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00eb e mir\u00eb p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt por n\u00ebse keni gjetur nj\u00eb grua qe eshte e mire per ju, f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tuaj dhe familjen tuaj, ju lutem mos e lini t\u00eb shkoj\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Djali im, n\u00ebse ju them se ju jeni kreu i sht\u00ebpis\u00eb, mos shikoni xhepin tuaj, shikoni n\u00ebse do t\u00eb shihni nj\u00eb buz\u00ebqeshje n\u00eb fytyr\u00ebn e gruas suaj.
\nDjali im, n\u00ebse d\u00ebshiron t\u00eb kesh nj\u00eb jet\u00eb t\u00eb gjat\u00eb, le t\u00eb mbaj\u00eb gruaja jote pag\u00ebn t\u00ebnde, do t\u00eb jet\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb p\u00ebr ta shpenzuar kur \u00ebsht\u00eb e vet\u00ebdijshme p\u00ebr nevojat e sht\u00ebpis\u00eb dhe faturat qe duhen paguar, por n\u00ebse \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb kujdesin tuaj, ajo do t\u2019ju kerkoje lek edhe kur t\u00eb gjitha te jene shpenzuar.
\nDjali im, kurr\u00eb mos e rrih gruan t\u00ebnde, dhimbja n\u00eb trupin e saj nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb asgj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019u krahasuar me plag\u00ebn n\u00eb zemr\u00ebn e saj dhe kjo do t\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb mund t\u00eb jeni n\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi t\u00eb jetoni me nj\u00eb grua t\u00eb plagosur.<\/p>\n

Djali im, n\u00eb dit\u00ebt tona, kishim shum\u00eb gra dhe shum\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb tokave tona t\u00eb m\u00ebdha t\u00eb fermave dhe korrjeve, nuk ka m\u00eb shum\u00eb tok\u00eb p\u00ebr bujq\u00ebsi, prandaj p\u00ebrqafoni gruan tuaj.
\nDjali im, kur hidhja gur\u00eb ose f\u00ebrsh\u00eblleja n\u00eb dritaren e sht\u00ebpis\u00eb s\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00ebs tende, p\u00ebr ta thirrur at\u00eb kur ishte vajze nuk ishte p\u00ebr seks, por sepse me mungonte aq shum\u00eb.
\nDjali im, mbaj mend, kur thoni se gruaja juaj ka ndryshuar, mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb di\u00e7ka q\u00eb ju e keni ndaluar ta beje.
\nDjali im, n\u00ebna jote, dilte me bi\u00e7iklet\u00eb me mua para se t\u00eb blija makinen, \u00e7do grua q\u00eb nuk do t\u00eb qendroje me ty n\u00eb fillimet e tua, nuk duhet t\u00eb g\u00ebzoj\u00eb pasurine tuaj.
\nDjali im, n\u00ebse nj\u00eb grua pretendon t\u00eb ket\u00eb t\u00eb drejta t\u00eb barabarta me ju n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, ndani t\u00eb gjitha faturat n\u00eb dy pjes\u00eb t\u00eb barabarta, merrni nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb dhe k\u00ebrkoni q\u00eb ajo t\u00eb filloj\u00eb t\u00eb paguaj\u00eb pjes\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr.<\/p>\n

Biri im, un\u00eb nuk i d\u00ebrgova motrat e tua n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb, sepse isha budalla , ti mos e b\u00ebj k\u00ebt\u00eb gabim.
\nBiri im, n\u00eb dit\u00ebt tona, grat\u00eb tona kishin m\u00eb shum\u00eb bukuri natyrore, megjith\u00ebse disa kishin piktura t\u00eb vogla kryesisht n\u00eb krah\u00ebt e tyre, ato q\u00eb ju tashm\u00eb i quani tatuazh, por mos harroni se ata nuk ekspozuan ndonj\u00eb pjes\u00eb t\u00eb trupit t\u00eb tyre si grat\u00eb tuaja ne ditet e sotshme.
\nDjali im, n\u00ebna jote dhe un\u00eb nuk jemi t\u00eb interesuar p\u00ebr z\u00ebnkat q\u00eb ndodhin n\u00eb martes\u00ebn t\u00ebnde, p\u00ebrpiquni t\u00eb trajtoni \u00e7\u00ebshtjet pa ardhur gjithmon\u00eb tek ne.
\nDjali im, kujtoj q\u00eb bleva makin\u00ebn e par\u00eb t\u00eb qepjes s\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00ebs t\u00ebnde p\u00ebr t\u00eb, ndihmoje gruan t\u00ebnde t\u00eb arrij\u00eb \u00ebndrrat e saj.
\nDjali im, lutu me familjen t\u00ebnde, ka nj\u00eb te neserme q\u00eb nuk e dini, besoni ne Zot se vetem ai di \u00e7do gj\u00eb, \u00e7do dit\u00eb.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Kur mendoj se \u00e7far\u00eb lloj k\u00ebshillash jane me te mirat, m\u00eb duhet t\u00eb them k\u00ebshilla martesore. Pse? Sepse bashk\u00ebshorti juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb ai q\u00eb ju kaloni<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":14,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[54],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-12444","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-indeks"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/indeks.bilten.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12444","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/indeks.bilten.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/indeks.bilten.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/indeks.bilten.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/14"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/indeks.bilten.mk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=12444"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/indeks.bilten.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12444\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/indeks.bilten.mk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=12444"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/indeks.bilten.mk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=12444"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/indeks.bilten.mk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=12444"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}