{"id":14579,"date":"2023-08-21T15:11:36","date_gmt":"2023-08-21T13:11:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/indeks.mk\/?p=14579"},"modified":"2023-08-21T15:11:36","modified_gmt":"2023-08-21T13:11:36","slug":"10-shprehjet-tipike-qe-nje-nene-shqiptare-i-thote-kur-eshte-me-nerva","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/indeks.bilten.mk\/?p=14579","title":{"rendered":"10 shprehjet tipike q\u00eb nj\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00eb shqiptare i thot\u00eb kur \u00ebsht\u00eb me nerva…"},"content":{"rendered":"

T\u00eb gjitha n\u00ebnat n\u00eb bot\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb ve\u00e7anta, dhe t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt sa vet\u00eb jeta. T\u00eb gjith\u00eb biem dakord n\u00eb nj\u00eb pik\u00eb, q\u00eb raportet n\u00eb familjet tona jan\u00eb mjaft t\u00eb ngushta, dhe kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb gj\u00eb pozitive e shqiptar\u00ebve.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ne e ruajm\u00eb familjen si gj\u00ebn\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb shtrenjt\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00eb, (si\u00e7 \u00ebsht\u00eb dhe duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb). Gjithsesi, pa \u00e7ka se jemi t\u00eb lidhur me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin, edhe n\u00eb familjet shqiptare ka debate nga m\u00eb t\u00eb ndryshmet. Ato m\u00eb t\u00eb fortat sigurisht q\u00eb n\u00eb shumic\u00ebn e rasteve jan\u00eb me mamat\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Nuk e dim\u00eb si i keni marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet me n\u00ebnat, por nuk besoj se ka vajz\u00eb shqiptare q\u00eb nuk i ka d\u00ebgjuar ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb k\u00ebto shprehje nga mamaja e saj?<\/p>\n

1-Shiko t\u00eb bij\u00ebn e filanes<\/p>\n

N\u00ebnat shqiptare kur b\u00ebhen me nerva me ju, kan\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb me t\u00eb cil\u00ebn ju krahasojn\u00eb. Ajo bija e filanes, \u00ebsht\u00eb shembull p\u00ebr t\u2019u ndjekur sipas mamas\u00eb (edhe pse ju ndoshta i dini 100 t\u00eb zeza p\u00ebr at\u00eb vajz\u00eb)<\/p>\n

2-Do doja t\u00eb isha nj\u00eb dit\u00eb si ti, rehat<\/p>\n

P\u00ebr mamat\u00eb shqiptare vajzat e tyre nuk e vrasin shum\u00eb mendjen p\u00ebr problemet e sht\u00ebpis\u00eb, dhe ka ndonj\u00eb moment q\u00eb do donin t\u00eb ishin si vajzat. Ndoshta, ato nuk e kuptojn\u00eb q\u00eb edhe vajza mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb probleme.<\/p>\n

3-Do shkosh tek burri, nes\u00ebr pasnes\u00ebr, t\u2019i kesh dy gj\u00ebra p\u00ebr veten<\/p>\n

Mamaja t\u00eb vendos dhe n\u00eb sed\u00ebr, kur nuk b\u00ebn ndonj\u00eb pun\u00eb sht\u00ebpie. Ajo justifikohet duke th\u00ebn\u00eb se ajo nuk ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr ndihm\u00eb, por d\u00ebshiron q\u00eb t\u2019i t\u00eb m\u00ebsosh se nes\u00ebr, pasnes\u00ebr do t\u00eb shkosh tek burri.
\n4-Me k\u00ebt\u00eb mendje, t\u00eb diel\u00ebn do t\u00eb martohesh, t\u00eb h\u00ebn\u00ebn do t\u00eb kthejn\u00eb<\/p>\n

Kujt ia ka th\u00ebn\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb shprehje mamaja, t\u00eb ngrej\u00eb dor\u00ebn? Mami sigurisht q\u00eb mund ta ket\u00eb me shaka, por shpesh mund t\u00eb thot\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb q\u00eb vajzave mund t\u2019ju duket p\u00ebr t\u00eb qeshur, por po ta mendosh thell\u00eb thell\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb aspak p\u00ebr t\u00eb qeshur.<\/p>\n

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5-Si s\u2019m\u00eb ngjave nj\u00eb \u00e7ik\u00eb mua?<\/p>\n

N\u00eb fakt k\u00ebtu kan\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00eb, duhet t\u2019ju ngjajm\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb mamave.<\/p>\n

6-Ke ngjar\u00eb nga familja e babait t\u00ebnd<\/p>\n

Kur b\u00ebn ndonj\u00eb gj\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb, meritat i merr mami. Kur njer\u00ebzit t\u00eb komplimentojn\u00eb \u201csa e bukur je\u201d, ose gj\u00ebra t\u00eb tilla, meritat sigurisht q\u00eb i merr mami. Por ama kur ti b\u00ebn di\u00e7ka q\u00eb mamit nuk i p\u00eblqen, i ke ngjar\u00eb komplet fisit t\u00eb babait.<\/p>\n

7-N\u00eb mosh\u00ebn t\u00ebnde un\u00eb mbaja familjen<\/p>\n

Kush thot\u00eb se nuk e ka d\u00ebgjuar k\u00ebt\u00eb shprehje nga mami, g\u00ebnjen. T\u00eb gjitha n\u00ebnat shqiptare, e kan\u00eb shprehje t\u00eb preferuar, sado koh\u00ebt kan\u00eb ndryshuar, mami mendon p\u00ebr koh\u00ebn e vet.<\/p>\n

9-Nj\u00eb dit\u00eb nuk do t\u00eb jem un\u00eb, \u00e7far\u00eb do t\u00eb b\u00ebsh?<\/p>\n

At\u00eb dit\u00eb as nuk duam t\u00eb mendojm\u00eb, por mamat\u00eb vazhdimisht e p\u00ebrmendin k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb, dhe nuk e kuptojn\u00eb q\u00eb kjo fjali t\u00eb l\u00ebndon, edhe pse ato e thon\u00eb n\u00eb nerva e sip\u00ebr.<\/p>\n