{"id":14899,"date":"2023-08-24T15:21:32","date_gmt":"2023-08-24T13:21:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/indeks.mk\/?p=14899"},"modified":"2023-08-24T15:21:32","modified_gmt":"2023-08-24T13:21:32","slug":"shenjat-qe-tregojne-se-vjehrra-juaj-eshte-nje-djalle-dhe-kurre-nuk-sillet-si-nene-me-ju","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/indeks.bilten.mk\/?p=14899","title":{"rendered":"Shenjat q\u00eb tregojn\u00eb se vjehrra juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb djall\u00eb dhe kurr\u00eb nuk sillet si n\u00ebn\u00eb me ju…"},"content":{"rendered":"

Shpesh marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia mes nuses dhe vjehrr\u00ebs nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e rrethuar nga ngjarjet pozitive apo dashuria, ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb kjo marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie \u00ebsht\u00eb problematike dhe kjo gj\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e dukshme por jo t\u00eb gjith\u00eb arrijn\u00eb ta kuptojn\u00eb.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Si ta kuptojme n\u00ebse vjehrra \u00ebsht\u00eb problematike? Ajo mendon dhe k\u00ebrkon t\u00eb ket\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00eb. Ajo nuk e ka asnj\u00ebher\u00eb gabim, nuk e pranon k\u00ebt\u00eb dhe nuk k\u00ebrkon asnj\u00ebher\u00eb falje. N\u00eb syt\u00eb e saj jeni gjithmon\u00eb ju n\u00eb gabim.<\/p>\n

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Ajo ju injoron n\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb shumt\u00ebn e koh\u00ebs. Madje nuk e d\u00ebgjon fare at\u00eb q\u00eb jeni duke th\u00ebn\u00eb, e madje nuk tregon interes ndaj gj\u00ebrave q\u00eb ju p\u00eblqeni.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

P\u00ebrpiqet t\u00eb tregoj\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha rastet se ju nuk jeni mjaftuesh\u00ebm e mir\u00eb p\u00ebr djalin e saj. Edhe n\u00ebse nuk e tregon n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb direkte mund ta shpreh\u00eb n\u00eb forma t\u00eb tjera por duke dh\u00ebn\u00eb nj\u00eb mesazh t\u00eb qart\u00eb.
\nP\u00ebr t\u00eb treguar q\u00eb ka dominanc\u00eb tek ju, do t\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqet t\u2019ju b\u00ebj\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebni gj\u00ebra q\u00eb i p\u00eblqejn\u00eb asaj. Kjo n\u00ebnkupton t\u00eb p\u00ebrshiheni n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha eventet q\u00eb ajo do, t\u00eb q\u00ebndroni me t\u00eb gjith\u00eb njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb ajo do, t\u00eb gatuani si ajo do, pra t\u00eb b\u00ebni t\u00eb gjitha gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb ajo do. Dhe n\u00ebse nuk b\u00ebni si\u00e7 ajo do, mund t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqet t\u00eb kthej\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb njer\u00ebzit kund\u00ebr jush, e madje mund t\u00eb filloj\u00eb t\u00eb ushtroj\u00eb presion mbi bashk\u00ebshortin tuaj p\u00ebr t\u2019ju l\u00ebn\u00eb pasi ju nuk e b\u00ebni t\u00eb lumtur.
\nNuk respekton hap\u00ebsir\u00ebn tuaj, fjal\u00ebn apo zgjedhjet tuaja edhe n\u00ebse b\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tuaj.
\nDo t\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqet q\u00eb me dashurin\u00eb e djalit t\u00eb saj t\u00eb arrij\u00eb t\u00eb komandoj\u00eb dhe n\u00ebse ai nuk e b\u00ebn k\u00ebt\u00eb, ajo do t\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqet ta nd\u00ebshkoj\u00eb edhe at\u00eb. N\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn koh\u00eb mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrdor\u00eb kund\u00ebr jush edhe respektin q\u00eb partneri juaj mund t\u00eb tregoj\u00eb p\u00ebr familjar\u00ebt tuaj.
\nN\u00eb publik sillet si e edukuar dhe si nj\u00eb person q\u00eb do q\u00eb familja t\u00eb jet\u00eb e bashkuar. Shum\u00eb njer\u00ebz do t\u2019i besojn\u00eb dhe nuk duhet t\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqeni t\u2019i b\u00ebni t\u00eb ndryshojn\u00eb mendim.
\nDo t\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqet q\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb t\u00eb kontrolloj\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha zgjedhjet dhe vendimet q\u00eb do t\u00eb marrin f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e saj, duke p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb partnerin tuaj, e madje edhe vendimet q\u00eb ai merr n\u00eb drejtimin tuaj.
\nN\u00eb nj\u00eb moment mund t\u00eb duket sikur situata \u00ebsht\u00eb normalizuar dhe tashm\u00eb mes jush nuk ka konflikte. Q\u00ebndroni vigjilente pasi ajo mund t\u00eb nxjerr\u00eb nga momenti n\u00eb moment nj\u00eb z\u00ebnk\u00eb apo ngacmim ndaj jush.
\nK\u00ebshilla e psikolog\u00ebve? Ruani distancat! Zakonisht marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia nuse vjeh\u00ebrr, n\u00ebse kjo e fundit \u00ebsht\u00eb me karakteristikat e m\u00ebsip\u00ebrme, nuk do t\u00eb funksionoj\u00eb ansj\u00ebher\u00eb si duhet! Me kalimin e koh\u00ebs do t\u00eb m\u00ebsoni si ta menaxhoni marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn e duhur pa p\u00ebrkeq\u00ebsuar gjendjen tuaj emocionale.<\/p>\n

Si \u00ebsht\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia juaj me vjehrr\u00ebn? Cilat jan\u00eb gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb do t\u00eb donit t\u00eb ndryshonit tek ajo dhe cilat jan\u00eb ato q\u00eb vler\u00ebsoni m\u00eb tep\u00ebr?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Shpesh marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia mes nuses dhe vjehrr\u00ebs nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e rrethuar nga ngjarjet pozitive apo dashuria, ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb kjo marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie \u00ebsht\u00eb problematike dhe kjo gj\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":14,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[54],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-14899","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-indeks"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/indeks.bilten.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14899","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/indeks.bilten.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/indeks.bilten.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/indeks.bilten.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/14"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/indeks.bilten.mk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=14899"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/indeks.bilten.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14899\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/indeks.bilten.mk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=14899"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/indeks.bilten.mk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=14899"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/indeks.bilten.mk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=14899"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}