{"id":1624,"date":"2023-03-29T12:19:30","date_gmt":"2023-03-29T10:19:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/indeks.mk\/?p=1624"},"modified":"2023-03-29T12:19:30","modified_gmt":"2023-03-29T10:19:30","slug":"3-arsyet-kryesore-pse-njerezit-nuk-duan-te-martohen","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/indeks.bilten.mk\/?p=1624","title":{"rendered":"3 arsyet kryesore pse njer\u00ebzit nuk duan t\u00eb martohen!"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ka shum\u00eb arsye q\u00eb disa njer\u00ebz vendosin se nuk duan t\u00eb martohen, duke filluar nga traumat e s\u00eb kaluar\u00ebs deri te financat. N\u00ebse partneri juaj nuk d\u00ebshiron t\u00eb martohet ose jeni ju ai me frik\u00ebn p\u00ebr martes\u00ebn, k\u00ebtu jan\u00eb disa arsye t\u00eb mira p\u00ebr t\u2019u marr\u00eb parasysh.<\/p>\n

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Disa njer\u00ebz n\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsi jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb orientuar drejt karrier\u00ebs. Martesa dhe \u00e7do marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie afatgjat\u00eb e p\u00ebrkushtuar mund t\u00eb marr\u00eb shum\u00eb koh\u00eb dhe v\u00ebmendje, dhe disa njer\u00ebz nuk jan\u00eb t\u00eb interesuar t\u00eb ndajn\u00eb energjin\u00eb e tyre midis pun\u00ebs dhe romanc\u00ebs. Kjo nuk do t\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb kesh nj\u00eb karrier\u00eb dhe t\u00eb martohesh jan\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekje ekskluzive reciproke, disa njer\u00ebz thjesht kujdesen m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00ebrin sesa p\u00ebr tjetrin.<\/p>\n

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Marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet mund t\u00eb jen\u00eb pun\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb. P\u00ebr disa, mungesa e suksesit n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet afatgjata mund ta b\u00ebj\u00eb jo t\u00ebrheq\u00ebs angazhimin ndaj dikujt p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn. P\u00ebr ata q\u00eb kan\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi n\u00eb mbajtjen e marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieve t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetshme, lidhja me ligj me nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb e frikshme. P\u00ebrndryshe, disa njer\u00ebz mund t\u00eb ken\u00eb qen\u00eb d\u00ebshmitar\u00eb t\u00eb shum\u00eb martesave t\u00eb d\u00ebshtuara rreth tyre (p.sh., t\u00eb ken\u00eb prind\u00ebr me nj\u00eb martes\u00eb t\u00eb trazuar), duke e b\u00ebr\u00eb martes\u00ebn t\u00eb duket m\u00eb pak t\u00ebrheq\u00ebse.<\/p>\n

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Raporti i Pew 2017 zbuloi se 45% e njer\u00ebzve q\u00eb kan\u00eb qen\u00eb t\u00eb martuar m\u00eb par\u00eb nuk duan t\u00eb martohen m\u00eb. Disa studime sugjerojn\u00eb se normat e divorcit p\u00ebr martesat e dyta priren t\u00eb jen\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb larta se sa p\u00ebr \u00e7iftet e martuara p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb. Sipas Institutit Gottman, ka shum\u00eb arsye, duke filluar nga \u00e7\u00ebshtjet e mundshme rreth bashk\u00eb-prind\u00ebrimit deri te bagazhi dhe mungesa e cenueshm\u00ebris\u00eb q\u00eb mund t\u00eb sjell\u00ebsh n\u00eb nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie t\u00eb re. P\u00ebr t\u00eb gjitha k\u00ebto arsye, disa njer\u00ebz mund t\u00eb zgjedhin t\u00eb mos martohen m\u00eb pasi kan\u00eb p\u00ebrjetuar nj\u00eb martes\u00eb t\u00eb d\u00ebshtuar n\u00eb t\u00eb kaluar\u00ebn.<\/p>\n

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Ka shum\u00eb arsye q\u00eb disa njer\u00ebz vendosin se nuk duan t\u00eb martohen, duke filluar nga traumat e s\u00eb kaluar\u00ebs deri te financat. N\u00ebse partneri juaj<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":14,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[49],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1624","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-showbiz"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/indeks.bilten.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1624","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/indeks.bilten.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/indeks.bilten.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/indeks.bilten.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/14"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/indeks.bilten.mk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1624"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/indeks.bilten.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1624\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/indeks.bilten.mk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1624"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/indeks.bilten.mk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1624"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/indeks.bilten.mk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1624"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}