{"id":2724,"date":"2023-04-06T10:03:54","date_gmt":"2023-04-06T08:03:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/indeks.mk\/?p=2724"},"modified":"2023-04-06T10:03:54","modified_gmt":"2023-04-06T08:03:54","slug":"koleget-nga-te-cilet-duhet-te-distancoheni","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/indeks.bilten.mk\/?p=2724","title":{"rendered":"\u200bKoleg\u00ebt nga t\u00eb cil\u00ebt duhet t\u00eb distancoheni"},"content":{"rendered":"

Nj\u00eb hap\u00ebsir\u00eb pune p\u00ebrb\u00ebhet nga njer\u00ebz me prejardhje dhe eksperienca t\u00eb ndryshme, q\u00eb p\u00ebrcaktojn\u00eb edhe personalitetin e tyre. Derisa disa jan\u00eb jasht\u00ebzakonisht mb\u00ebshtet\u00ebs dhe t\u00eb gatsh\u00ebm t\u00eb ju ndihmojn\u00eb, t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt mund t’ju shohin si konkurrent dhe mundohen t\u00eb pengojn\u00eb rrug\u00ebn tuaj drejt suksesit. Pas k\u00ebtyre dy kategorive, vjen lloji m\u00eb i keq, pra koleg\u00ebt toksik\u00eb.<\/p>\n

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Ata thithin energjin\u00eb tuaj dhe ju b\u00ebjn\u00eb t\u00eb dyshoni vazhdimisht p\u00ebr veten. P\u00ebr m\u00eb tep\u00ebr, ata jan\u00eb ekspert\u00eb n\u00eb thashethemet dhe fjal\u00ebt e k\u00ebqija dhe ka t\u00eb ngjar\u00eb t\u00eb shkojn\u00eb n\u00ebp\u00ebr zyr\u00eb duke th\u00ebn\u00eb gj\u00ebra t\u00eb k\u00ebqija p\u00ebr ju. Prandaj, \u00ebsht\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme t’i identifikoni ato dhe t’i hiqni ato nga jeta juaj. AkademiPune ju sjell disa pik\u00ebpamje p\u00ebr llojet e koleg\u00ebve toksik\u00eb nga t\u00eb cil\u00ebt duhet t\u00eb distancoheni.<\/p>\n

Ata q\u00eb i marrin meritat<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Disa koleg\u00eb jan\u00eb ekspert\u00eb n\u00eb marrjen e meritave kur jeni ju ai q\u00eb keni b\u00ebr\u00eb gjith\u00eb pun\u00ebn e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb. Konsideroni veten n\u00eb nj\u00eb situat\u00eb ku po p\u00ebrpiqeni t\u00eb p\u00ebrfundoni nj\u00eb projekt madhor. Megjithat\u00eb, ju nuk keni energji mendore dhe fizike p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrfunduar penges\u00ebn e fundit. Por m\u00eb pas nj\u00eb bashk\u00ebpun\u00ebtor ‘dashamir\u00ebs’ ofron nj\u00eb ndihm\u00eb, dhe pa e ditur as ju, ia kan\u00eb dor\u00ebzuar shefit tuaj! Nga k\u00ebto koleg\u00eb duhet t\u00eb distancoheni n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb mos lejoni t\u00eb p\u00ebrs\u00ebriten situata t\u00eb tilla.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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Ata q\u00eb merren me thashetheme<\/strong><\/p>\n

Vendi juaj i pun\u00ebs \u00ebsht\u00eb i mbushur me nj\u00eb num\u00ebr t\u00eb madh njer\u00ebzish q\u00eb ose n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb paqart\u00eb ose nga af\u00ebr e njohin nj\u00ebri-tjetrin dhe me siguri do t\u00eb qarkullojn\u00eb thashetheme. Megjithat\u00eb, duhet t\u00eb dini se n\u00ebse ata po p\u00ebrgojojn\u00eb dik\u00eb me ju, ka shum\u00eb mund\u00ebsi q\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn gj\u00eb p\u00ebr ju me dik\u00eb tjet\u00ebr.<\/p>\n

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Politikan\u00ebt q\u00eb nuk besojn\u00eb n\u00eb merita<\/strong><\/p>\n

Politikani \u00ebsht\u00eb i konsumuar nga politika e kompanive. Jeta e tyre e pun\u00ebs b\u00ebhet nj\u00eb loj\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebn ata vazhdimisht p\u00ebrpiqen t\u00eb “fitojn\u00eb” pun\u00ebn e radh\u00ebs, promovimin e radh\u00ebs dhe projektin tjet\u00ebr. Megjithat\u00eb, ata shpenzojn\u00eb pak ose aspak koh\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrmbushur p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsit\u00eb e tyre aktuale. Ata besojn\u00eb plot\u00ebsisht se promovimet nuk bazohen n\u00eb merita!<\/p>\n

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Ata q\u00eb mendojn\u00eb se i din\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Njer\u00ebz t\u00eb till\u00eb ndihen mir\u00eb kur i b\u00ebjn\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt t\u00eb ndihen m\u00eb pak t\u00eb aft\u00eb dhe inferior\u00eb. N\u00ebse afroheni me ta, po shkoni drejt nj\u00eb jete komplekse inferioriteti. Ata kurr\u00eb nuk do t’ju konsiderojn\u00eb si t\u00eb barabart\u00eb me ta. Ata kan\u00eb nj\u00eb ego t\u00eb madhe, e cila \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishmja p\u00ebr ta.<\/p>\n

Ata q\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb gj\u00ebra pas shpine<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ata vjedhin idet\u00eb e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve p\u00ebr t\u2019i r\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb sy t\u00eb mir\u00eb shefit. Ata jan\u00eb simpatik\u00eb n\u00eb fillim dhe din\u00eb t\u00eb fitojn\u00eb besimin tuaj derisa t\u00eb ju vendosin n\u00eb pozit\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb. Andaj largohuni sa m\u00eb par\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb e mundur n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb mos d\u00ebmtoheni m\u00eb shum\u00eb.<\/p>\n

P\u00ebrtac\u00ebt<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00c7do zyr\u00eb apo vend pune ka pjes\u00ebn e vet t\u00eb njer\u00ebzve dembel\u00eb. Pavar\u00ebsisht n\u00ebse dikur ishin punonj\u00ebs t\u00eb mir\u00eb dhe u b\u00ebn\u00eb t\u00eb vet\u00ebk\u00ebnaqur me t\u00eb gjitha arritjet e tyre, ose ishin thjesht dembel\u00eb q\u00eb n\u00eb fillim, k\u00ebta individ\u00eb jan\u00eb njer\u00ebz me t\u00eb cil\u00ebt as nuk duhet t\u00eb shqet\u00ebsoheni. Ata nuk japin asnj\u00eb kontribut real n\u00eb vendin e pun\u00ebs, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 kryerjes s\u00eb disa detyrave t\u00eb domosdoshme aty-k\u00ebtu. Gjithashtu, jan\u00eb edhe ata q\u00eb ankohen p\u00ebr \u201ct\u00eb gjith\u00eb pun\u00ebn\u201d q\u00eb kan\u00eb. K\u00ebshtu ata e b\u00ebjn\u00eb pun\u00ebn tuaj shum\u00eb toksike duke u munduar t\u00eb p\u00ebrqendrohen vet\u00ebm n\u00eb an\u00ebt negative t\u00eb saj.<\/p>\n

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Ata q\u00eb ju hedhin fajin<\/strong><\/p>\n

Imagjinoni nj\u00eb bashk\u00ebpun\u00ebtor duke b\u00ebr\u00eb nj\u00eb v\u00ebrejtje t\u00eb \u00e7uditshme p\u00ebr ju q\u00eb keni mbaruar pun\u00ebn “her\u00ebt” kur keni punuar shum\u00eb gjat\u00eb gjith\u00eb dit\u00ebs. E thon\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn m\u00eb pasive-agresive q\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebn t\u00eb ndihesh fajtor q\u00eb nuk ke b\u00ebr\u00eb asgj\u00eb t\u00eb keqe.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Nj\u00eb hap\u00ebsir\u00eb pune p\u00ebrb\u00ebhet nga njer\u00ebz me prejardhje dhe eksperienca t\u00eb ndryshme, q\u00eb p\u00ebrcaktojn\u00eb edhe personalitetin e tyre. Derisa disa jan\u00eb jasht\u00ebzakonisht mb\u00ebshtet\u00ebs dhe t\u00eb<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":14,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[49],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2724","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-showbiz"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/indeks.bilten.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2724","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/indeks.bilten.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/indeks.bilten.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/indeks.bilten.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/14"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/indeks.bilten.mk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2724"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/indeks.bilten.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2724\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/indeks.bilten.mk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2724"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/indeks.bilten.mk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2724"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/indeks.bilten.mk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2724"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}