Marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet me vjehrrit mund t\u00eb jen\u00eb sfiduese, t\u00eb shkaktojn\u00eb siklet dhe t\u00eb prishin lidhjen mes nj\u00eb \u00e7ifti. K\u00ebtu, ne do t\u00eb ndajm\u00eb disa k\u00ebshilla p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndihmuar n\u00eb zbutjen e situat\u00ebs.<\/p>\n
Pranoni se \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb koh\u00eb tranzicioni
\nFakti q\u00eb nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb lidhje afatgjat\u00eb, martohet ose krijon familjen e tij \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb moment i r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm tranzicioni p\u00ebr familjen e tij b\u00ebrthamore. Si \u00e7do ndryshim, ky transformim \u00ebsht\u00eb sfidues dhe k\u00ebrkon koh\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019u pranuar.
\nPrandaj, jini t\u00eb duruesh\u00ebm me vjehrrit tuaj dhe gjithashtu me veten tuaj. Mos pretendoni se gjith\u00e7ka \u00ebsht\u00eb e thjesht\u00eb dhe perfekte q\u00eb n\u00eb fillim. Merreni leht\u00eb dhe lejojini vetes t\u00eb njiheni me k\u00ebta njer\u00ebz (dhe l\u00ebrini t\u2019ju njohin ju).<\/p>\n
P\u00ebrcaktoni rolet
\nKonflikti mund t\u00eb lind\u00eb n\u00ebse rolet tuaja nuk jan\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrcaktuara mir\u00eb dhe ju merrni role q\u00eb nuk ju korrespondojn\u00eb. Q\u00eb n\u00eb fillim, t\u00eb dy duhet ta dini se, p\u00ebr t\u00eb krijuar nj\u00eb jet\u00eb s\u00eb bashku, duhet t\u2019i jepni p\u00ebrpar\u00ebsi roleve tuaja.<\/p>\n
Flisni me partnerin tuaj<\/p>\n
T\u00eb jetosh me vjehrrit mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtje q\u00eb krijon shqet\u00ebsimin m\u00eb t\u00eb madh. Mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb gjithashtu nj\u00eb burim i mundsh\u00ebm konflikti. P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye, \u00ebsht\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme q\u00eb ju dhe partneri juaj t\u00eb flisni p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb s\u00eb bashku, t\u00eb negocioni dhe t\u00eb bini dakord. Kuptoni se sa e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebr ju t\u00eb gjith\u00eb t\u00eb jetoni t\u00eb lumtur s\u00eb bashku. Mendoni se sa her\u00eb do t\u00eb takoheni dhe sa fleksib\u00ebl jan\u00eb k\u00ebto koh\u00eb. Bini dakord deri n\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb mase jeni t\u00eb gatsh\u00ebm t\u00eb ndani nj\u00ebri-tjetrin me familjet tuaja p\u00ebrkat\u00ebse.<\/p>\n
Ofroni p\u00ebrzem\u00ebrsi dhe respekt<\/p>\n
T\u00eb shkosh mir\u00eb me vjehrrit nuk do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebhesh miq dhe t\u00eb besuar t\u00eb m\u00ebdhenj. N\u00eb realitet, mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb ose nuk mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb nj\u00eb afinitet, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb mos u b\u00ebni presion t\u00eb panevojsh\u00ebm ndaj vetes ose atyre.<\/p>\n
P\u00ebr t\u00eb bashk\u00ebjetuar t\u00eb lumtur, gjith\u00e7ka q\u00eb ju nevojitet \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrzem\u00ebrsia dhe respekti. K\u00ebt\u00eb mund ta tregoni me gjeste t\u00eb vogla. P\u00ebr shembull, duke qen\u00eb i sjellsh\u00ebm n\u00eb nd\u00ebrveprimet tuaja, duke shmangur temat e diskutueshme, duke bashk\u00ebpunuar n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi ose duke ofruar ndihm\u00eb n\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb mund t\u00eb kontribuoni kur ndani koh\u00ebn tuaj.<\/p>\n
Krijoni lidhjet tuaja<\/p>\n
Marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet mes vjehrrave dhe nuses dhe dh\u00ebnd\u00ebrve dhe vjehrrave priren t\u00eb ken\u00eb nj\u00eb shtyp shum\u00eb t\u00eb keq. Prandaj, \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrgatiteni p\u00ebr m\u00eb t\u00eb keqen. Disi, merret si e mir\u00ebqen\u00eb se do t\u00eb ket\u00eb rivalitete dhe mosmarr\u00ebveshje dhe se bashk\u00ebjetesa do t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb proces i hidhur.<\/p>\n
P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye, duhet t\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqeni t\u00eb kultivoni lidhjen tuaj me ta. Mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb aq e thjesht\u00eb sa t\u00eb jesh i v\u00ebmendsh\u00ebm ndaj tyre, t\u00eb b\u00ebsh nj\u00eb telefonat\u00eb n\u00eb dit\u00eblindjen e tyre ose t\u00eb pyes\u00ebsh p\u00ebr dit\u00ebn e tyre. N\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, vet\u00eb-zbulimi dhe ndarja ndihmojn\u00eb n\u00eb nd\u00ebrtimin e intimitetit emocional dhe lidhjeve<\/p>\n
Jini t\u00eb sigurt<\/p>\n
Meqen\u00ebse k\u00ebto jan\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie ve\u00e7an\u00ebrisht t\u00eb nd\u00ebrlikuara, duhet t\u00eb jeni t\u00eb sigurt. Ky stil komunikues do t\u2019ju lejoj\u00eb t\u00eb vendosni kufij t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetsh\u00ebm n\u00ebse mendoni se vjeh\u00ebrrit po ju ofendojn\u00eb. Gjithashtu do t\u2019ju ndihmoj\u00eb t\u00eb shprehni mendimet dhe k\u00ebrkesat tuaja me vendosm\u00ebri dhe respekt. \u00cbsht\u00eb ve\u00e7an\u00ebrisht e dobishme p\u00ebr zgjidhjen e konfliktit. Th\u00ebn\u00eb k\u00ebshtu, mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb e nevojshme t\u00eb punohet m\u00eb par\u00eb.<\/p>\n
P\u00ebr t\u00eb shmangur debatet, shpesh mund t\u00eb lejoni q\u00eb komentet l\u00ebnduese t\u2019ju kalojn\u00eb. Por, n\u00eb fund t\u00eb fundit vet\u00ebm sa ju b\u00ebjn\u00eb t\u00eb inatosur dhe situata do t\u00eb b\u00ebhet m\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb. P\u00ebrndryshe, ju mund t\u00eb zgjidhni t\u00eb ankoheni te partneri juaj. Megjithat\u00eb, kjo i vendos ata n\u00eb pozit\u00ebn e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb nd\u00ebrmjet\u00ebsimit mes jush dhe prind\u00ebrve t\u00eb tyre.<\/p>\n
Kujdesuni p\u00ebr sh\u00ebndetin tuaj mendor<\/p>\n
Mir\u00ebkuptimi me vjeh\u00ebrrit nuk lidhet vet\u00ebm me m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si ata sillen me ju dhe ju me ta. N\u00eb realitet, duhet t\u00eb ket\u00eb komunikim t\u00eb mir\u00eb mes jush dhe partnerit tuaj dhe ju duhet t\u00eb dini se si t\u00eb menaxhoni nj\u00eb s\u00ebr\u00eb aft\u00ebsish personale. N\u00ebse disa nga k\u00ebta element\u00eb mungojn\u00eb, mund t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoni ndihm\u00ebn e nj\u00eb profesionisti.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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