{"id":4673,"date":"2023-04-26T12:02:32","date_gmt":"2023-04-26T10:02:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/indeks.mk\/?p=4673"},"modified":"2023-04-26T12:02:32","modified_gmt":"2023-04-26T10:02:32","slug":"testi-qe-do-te-zbuloje-nese-keni-ndonje-traume-nga-femijeria-juaj","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/indeks.bilten.mk\/?p=4673","title":{"rendered":"Testi q\u00eb do t\u00eb zbuloj\u00eb n\u00ebse keni ndonj\u00eb traum\u00eb nga f\u00ebmij\u00ebria juaj"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Trauma psikologjike gjen m\u00eb shum\u00eb terren p\u00ebrmes marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnies prind-f\u00ebmij\u00eb. Prindi q\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb kujdesur p\u00ebr t\u00eb zgjidhur disa trauma t\u00eb thella psikologjike, b\u00ebhet emocionalisht i padisponuesh\u00ebm p\u00ebr syt\u00eb dhe shpirtin e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs pa i siguruar atij asnj\u00eb siguri.<\/p>\n<p>F\u00ebmija q\u00eb rritet n\u00eb nj\u00eb mjedis t\u00eb till\u00eb p\u00ebrjeton \u201cabuzime\u201d apo neglizhime kronike dhe t\u00eb p\u00ebrs\u00ebritura. Kjo rezulton n\u00eb krijimin e nj\u00eb plage \u201ckomplekse\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Me rritjen e f\u00ebmij\u00ebs, ai fiton probleme emocionale, \u00e7rregullime mendore ose vet\u00ebbesim t\u00eb ul\u00ebt , i cili zakonisht shoq\u00ebrohet me turp dhe faj . Shum\u00eb njer\u00ebz me trauma komplekse u rrit\u00ebn me prind\u00ebr q\u00eb e shprehnin zem\u00ebrimin e tyre n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet dhun\u00ebs ose gjuh\u00ebs fyese. K\u00ebto p\u00ebrvoja t\u00eb hershme me prind\u00ebrit i b\u00ebn\u00eb k\u00ebta individ\u00eb q\u00eb nga f\u00ebmij\u00ebria e tyre ta perceptojn\u00eb zem\u00ebrimin si nj\u00eb emocion \u201ct\u00eb keq\u201d q\u00eb si t\u00eb rritur ata duhet ta shtypin me \u00e7do kusht p\u00ebr t\u00eb shmangur konfliktet e mundshme. I gjith\u00eb ky zem\u00ebrim i mbyllur shpesh rezulton n\u00eb shp\u00ebrthime t\u00eb pakontrollueshme emocionale.<\/p>\n<p>P\u00ebr t\u00eb kuptuar n\u00ebse edhe ju keni nj\u00eb traum\u00eb nga f\u00ebmij\u00ebria juaj, mjafton t\u00eb b\u00ebni testin k\u00ebtu.<\/p>\n<p>Shum\u00eb prej nesh priren t\u00eb ndiejn\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb trishtim dhe zem\u00ebrim p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjitha ato raste kur prind\u00ebrit tan\u00eb na l\u00ebndojn\u00eb, duke i shtyr\u00eb m\u00ebnjan\u00eb ose duke injoruar ndjenjat e tjera. T\u00eb tjer\u00ebt ndihen fajtor\u00eb p\u00ebr sakrificat q\u00eb kan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb p\u00ebr ne por n\u00eb asnj\u00eb rast nuk ka vend p\u00ebr ndjenj\u00ebn \u201ce duhur\u201d. T\u00eb gjith\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb pranuesh\u00ebm dhe meritojn\u00eb hap\u00ebsir\u00eb \u200b\u200bt\u00eb barabart\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn ton\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Mund t\u2019ju duket e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb p\u00ebr disa gj\u00ebra, por nga t\u00eb kuptuarit vjen kuptimi i dashuris\u00eb s\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb. Shum\u00eb njer\u00ebz pranojn\u00eb sjellje t\u00eb k\u00ebqija nga prind\u00ebrit e tyre vet\u00ebm sepse jan\u00eb prind\u00ebrit e tyre. \u201cAta m\u00eb l\u00ebnduan, por e dija q\u00eb m\u00eb donin\u201d. Ky pranim shpesh ka pasoja t\u00eb dhimbshme, sepse shum\u00eb p\u00ebrfundojn\u00eb n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie ku partneri ka t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn sjellje abuzive si prindi.\/abcnews.al<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Trauma psikologjike gjen m\u00eb shum\u00eb terren p\u00ebrmes marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnies prind-f\u00ebmij\u00eb. Prindi q\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb kujdesur p\u00ebr t\u00eb zgjidhur disa trauma t\u00eb thella psikologjike, b\u00ebhet emocionalisht i<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":14,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[54,50],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4673","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-indeks","category-kuriozitete"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/indeks.bilten.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4673","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/indeks.bilten.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/indeks.bilten.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/indeks.bilten.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/14"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/indeks.bilten.mk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=4673"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/indeks.bilten.mk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4673\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/indeks.bilten.mk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=4673"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/indeks.bilten.mk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=4673"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/indeks.bilten.mk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=4673"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}